Blood Clot & Lovenox: My Mom’s Denver Detour

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Veins Protruding on Mom's Neck & Chest (January)

It’s been a long two days of waiting and worrying, but we finally know what’s causing the swelling in my mom’s neck and face and protrusion of veins. A CT scan this morning shows that Mom (Leslie Lehrman) has a blood clot in her right subclavian vein. We’ve been down this road.

Flash back to February, where both of Mom’s subclavian veins were nearly 100% blocked, so cardiovascular surgeons inserted two stents into her chest. A malignant tumor on the right side of her neck was pressing against the blood clot, making the situation extra dicey.

We felt quite certain there was a blockage somewhere, as my mom’s symptoms were the same, but we didn’t know where. Whatever the problem, we knew there WAS one. To make matters more confusing and frustrating, on Wednesday night, the ER docs at Mayo Clinic in Phoenix sent my mom home and told her to enjoy her trip to Denver and Nebraska, as the EKG and ultrasound looked great. Yeah, given my mom’s history with blood clots in her neck and Superior Vena Cava Syndrome, perhaps a CT should have been in order. As I ranted yesterday, get an effing grip.

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Mayo Doctors Point Out Where Right Stent is Located

My mom was feeling a bit better after the ER visit, but still not good. A slightly decreased stress level, perhaps, or one gigantic wish that this truly wasn’t happening…again. She and her husband, Bob, flew to Denver the next day.

My mom was dead set on making it back to Nebraska to see her mom, perhaps for the last time. I know that is what my Mom is thinking. I just know it. She was bound and determined to step foot in good old Fairbury, Nebraska, where my grandma now lives in a nursing home, if it killed her. It damn near did.

My mom and her husband, Bob, didn’t realize Mayo didn’t do a CT scan of her neck at that time (Wednesday). It dawned on them after they rushed to the Swedish Medical Center ER in Denver (Saturday) where the first order of business was a CT scan. This scan resulted in finding the blood clot in my Mom’s neck that doctors are now treating with Lovenox to try to thin it out.

It’s so easy to say, “Why didn’t doctors do this or that” after the fact. But, is it really my Mom’s job to know the difference between a CT scan and an ultrasound when she is in the ER with a doctor she has seen before and who has her entire medical history at his fingertips? Is it my Mom’s job to ask, “Hey, did you use your best judgement and technology to see what’s causing all of this swelling – especially since I just had two stents put in due to a tumor pressing against a blood clot in my neck a few months ago…right here at this very hospital?” After several calls from Denver to her Phoenix Mayo team, is it my Mom’s job to push back after she’s told, “Hey your scans are clear, there is nothing wrong, enjoy the rest of your trip?”

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Yep, a pretty woman, my Mom is!

Actually, yes it is my Mom’s job. It’s everyone’s job. We live in a total DIY healthcare system. We’ve been navigating the healthcare system hell for six years now. Advocating for the best possible care for YOU is exhausting, but it is a must.

My Mom isn’t on her way to Nebraska right now, obviously. I’m not sure when she’ll be able to give it another try. All I want right now is for her is to get better and get back home…back home to her couch with a good book in hand. That’s her happy place these days.

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  • Specialkkim

    Leslie ..I am so sorry you are going through all this! My thoughts and prayers are with you!!!

  • Diane

    still pissed they told her to go enjoy her trip…somebody needs to get called to the carpet for that..it’s terrible. unacceptable care. sending love Leslie…always in my heart and in my prayers. xoxoxoxoxo

  • Shelly Kramer

    God bless you and your mom. What warriors you are, Jen. And it is so sad that we live in a society that requires us to practice DIY medicine. Sad and horrifying. Your constant strength and tenacity, in the face of all adversity, constantly inspires me. And your mom, well, she’s an inspiration too.

    Good luck to you all.

    Much love,

    Shelly

  • Joyce Neifert

    Sending good thoughts to you mom!  Don’t know how any seriously ill patient navigates the healthcare system without a good support network around them.

     Yep, it really is DIY healthcare.  My brother-in-law died after being sent home repeatedly with Vicodin for blinding neck pain.  No one ever bothered to check his heart.  My husband collapsed to the floor suddenly, unable to breathe.  After five hours in ER - where they never even did a chest x-ray after he told them he was a lifelong non-smoker – he was sent home with an inhaler (never had asthma either).  What it really was?  Over two liters of fluid in his chest collapsing one lung, pushing on the other and his heart.  Stage IV lung cancer.  There’s much education left to be done, especially when it comes to lung cancer.

  • Jeanie Johnson

    Les and Jen,  All I can say, again, is that I’m so so sorry this is happening.  It is a nightmare that should never have been.  You are in our hearts and prayers.  Keep us posted. 
    Much Love,
    Jeanie and Steve

  • http://www.wtflungcancer.com/ Jennifer Windrum

    Cannot thank you all enough for your support and incredible love.  Jen

  • Dharris59

    I`m still praying and thinking of your beautiful mom. Leslie is so very sweet and I am so proud to call her my friend. Good to know that you now know what is what and she can get the help she needs.Thank you for the update. May God bless you and be with you …what a gorgeous lady she is !!
    Darlene.♥

  • Sallyness

    Am glad you finally know the problem and the answer to the problem with your mom.  Thank God you both are such strong women and fight for what you need.  My thoughts, prayers and get well wishes are with you all.  Lots of hugs.

  • http://thesocialjoint.com/ Lucretia M Pruitt

    So glad you have an answer!! Seriously hon, I’m here in Denver – let me know if there’s anything I can do on the ground here. (((hugs)))
    And yes, we all must be our own best “patient advocates” – because otherwise we become the “lesson” and it’s for others, not for our benefit.

  • Anniejmac

    oh my God!! Jen after everything you have been through .. Leslie Bless you & be better soon … this is all so unfair. I just can not believe they did not do a scan . What the hell were those docs at Mayo thinking ?? Thank goodness it is being looked after now. I would be furious.